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F. A. Q.
- I've seen some porn films and my cock seems much smaller than the actors'?
Am I
"normal".
Don't worry ! You're totally normally, most guys(¾) are
between size 2 and 3 when
they are hard (less than 16cm). It's true that, in porn flicks and on porn sites
,
the guys have often big, round dicks, which could give you a complex. In
reality,
they are a minority, they're chosen because their size isn't normal. For a
simple
comparison it would be like actors wearing size 18 shoes.
It's the same with porn women : in the real world do you see such
big tits ?
- Can creams make my dick longer ?
No !
No cream can do that ! They are lying ads. Bunch of scammers !
The penis is not a muscle it is spongy hollow flesh which grows when blood flows
into it. So you can't make it bigger by training like your biceps. Beware sites
promoting natural methods to grow your penis (« JELQ ») . They are pay sites,
it's a
scam.
The only thing that will make it grow, is being turned on. The more turned
on you
get the harder and bigger it'll be.
You can get a bigger penis by having an operatin. You'll gain about 2cm (an inch)
: but only when penis soft.
However this is really for severe cases, for men with very small dicks (Micropenises
less than 6cm erect).
- How do I measure my dick ?
Look at this link.
It has some photos to show you how.
Length is very variable and depends on many things such as température,
tiredness…
In general there is no link between your soft size and erect size: some small
dicks
grow a lot in erection and some big ones don't grow so much.
To measure your erection, make sure you're really hard and do it a few times as
you
can be turned on differently at different times.
Measuring : using a small ruler or tape measure, measure from the top of your
penis
to your pubic bone (don't push down too hard!). If your ruler doesn't
start at 0
don't forget to add the difference.
Measure the diameter when hard too. Officially the diameter means the diameter
of
the glans (head) . But it's better to measure your circonference (around your
penis); just measure around your dick halfway down with a tape measure.. You can
divide this figure by 3.14 to get a rough diameter.
- Why does my dick shrink after sport ?
Our cocks shrink sometimes in certain situations. It's
totally normal. Doing sport,
stress and cold, can all make it smaller than normal which will mess up your
results
if you measure then. So measure when it's quiet at room temperature. Your balls
do
the same. They shrink when you're cold and especially when you have a hard-on.
- Are bigger guys more hung ?
Hard to answer that because there is so much variety in
nature. It's true people
expect a big man, a very big man,to be more hung. Reality is more complex.
No serious study has ever demonstrated a link between the size of a man, the
size of
his feet, hands or his dick.
In a group of men who measure 1.85 m , you could measure flaccid cocks at 6,
8, 10, 12 cm. In a group of men wh measure 1.70 m, you'll also find 6, 8, 10, 12
cm
dicks. Nature decides
On the other hand, a 6cm dick will look smaller on a man
who is 1.9m (six foot),
than a 1.6m tall man . It's a question of proportions.
- I've noticed my testicles (balls) go up and down a lot. It's weird,
they keep
moving. Is that normal? Does this happen to all guys?
Don't worry ! Each ball is at the
end of a sperm cord ; this cord is full of blood
vessels, nerves, the vas deferens (tube to carry sperm) and a muscle around your
ball. At room temperature, when you are relaxed , your balls hang down. The
muscles
contract if you are cold, turned on or doing sport. This brings your balls
up
closer to your body. It happens to all men. So it's totally normal for your
balls to
behave like this.
- I'm 18 and my mates and I often compare our dicks in the locker room.
My mates balls hang lower. Why ?
Usually balls hang differently and are different sizes(see
testicles section). This
depends on the length of the spermal cord. So some guys have balls that hang
lower
down. But it doesn't reflect on your manliness or fertility.
In a locker room after sport your balls will often be
higher in your crotch.
- I wank (jerk off) 2 or 3 times a day. Is that normal?
It's a lot, but pretty common, especially for
teenagers. In general, men, once they
have a stable partner, make love every day or once a week: depends on their age
often ! If their partner doesn't have the same needs he might keep on
masturbating
as well as having sex.
- I cum after only a minute or two !
You need to control yourself, stroke yourself softly or
more slowly... Premature
ejaculation (cumming early) is not embarrassing when you're alone, but it can
let
your partner down when you're having sex. Try wanking before having sex if you
want
to last longer.
- Is wanking /jerking off bad for you?
Of course not. It's often taboo or forbidden (family or
religious reasons). In
reality, wanking is a good idea, you satisfy your sexual needs,and it is
relaxing.
You can also wank as part of foreplay or sex games with your partner. There is
no
age for wanking and it doesn't make you go blind.
Some married men still do it. Especially if their partner doesn't want to have
sex
as often as they do or if they are away.
- When I get a hard on my dick bends to the side. Is that because of
masturbation ?
No. Masturbation does not affect the curve of your penis
even if you do it every
day. So wank when you want with either hand.
Not all dicks are straight when they are hard see site
photos. Some even bend left
or right when they are flaccid (soft)
- Every time I put a rubber/condom on it comes off during sex. Why ?
First make sure you're fully hard before putting it on.
Roll it down properly, from
the head to the base of your shaft; it's normal if it is too long and bunches up
at
the bottom a bit.
Now, if it tends to move a lot so you feel like it is floating or you are going
to
lose it there might be a few reasons
-
Check it's on correctly
- If you're not fully
erect it will fall off . If that happens, relax until you're really hard
again and put it on
Your condom may be the wrong size although they are generally standard (18 cm
long
and 4.5cm diameter). Click on the links (Durex for example).
- Are there different types of condom?
Of course just like shoes and clothes. On our site you'll see there is no
standard
penis size ! Get info from our advertisers (Durex, Protex, Manix, Hansaplast...).
Try
some on before the magic moment when you need it to have sex. See how it
feels,that
it's not too tight. They also come in different colours and flavours.
- When I'm turned on a clear liquid sometimes drips. What is it ?
seminal fluid: 
It's a lubricant. Some men make a lot, some never
do. It helps you penetrate.
Women usually secrete some too, if not you'll need some gel... this is where
foreplay comes in
: Kissing, cuddling and touching turns the woman on and helps her get wet.
- During a hot evening when I've had a few hard-ons, I end up with sore balls.
It's pressure : don't hesitate to have a wank/jerk off.
- Can you swallow sperm ?
Yes, you can taste and swallow it. It's not poisonous,
it's a natural secretion.
Take care however if it's your partner who is doing the swallowing ! There are
two
case studies :
When you're getting a blow job (when the girl or guy is sucking you off until
you
ejaculate (cum)),
especially if you don't know your partner well (a new partner for example), you
ABSOLUTELY must wear a condom and your partner mustn't taste, lick or
swallow your
sperm. Illnesses like herpes, Hepatitis B and C et AIDS can be spread
through
seminal fluid. Warning! If the inside of your mouth is cut or has an abcess,
you can
get Aids from a blow job or going down on a girl (cunnilingus) !
If on the other hand, you've both tested clear, and you've
got good hygiene (washing
your dick daily), there is no other risk.
- My girl has asked me if it is safe to lick my balls ?
Of course she can, there is no risk from licking your
balls! Licking, swallowing,
and gently but firmly massaging your balls while having sex , for example, turns
guys on even more. Your balls are an erogoneous zone, so very sensitive .It's
just a
matter of touch and being gentle.
- My dick is 20cm long erect. My girlfriend complains about pain and says that I
penetrate too hard when we have sex. Is my cock too big ? I've heard the average
vagina is 10 cm, maybe that's why my dick doesn't go in so well.
It's not about the size it's about what you do with it !
Don't worry ! The size
isn't the problem.
You're definitely bigger than average (size4), but the vagina is capable of
welcoming all sizes(except in very extreme cases).
When she's not aroused a woman's vagina is about 8-11 cm
deep. It's only when she is
turned on that the bottom of her vagina gets soft and elastic and can fit any
man(even a 20cm member!) So what's going on is not the size of your equipment
but
your behaviour
Well hung men often can be a bit rough because they think the size of their cock
is
enough to satisfy their partner.Your partner is not getting "wet" enough or at
all ;
her vagina is not relaxed and sufficiently lubricated. If she's not ready then
your
thrusts can be painful, or you might find it hard to enter. Your girlfriend
needs
time, she has to relax, which is why foreplay is important
(caresses etc…) ; that will help prepare her vagina for you to enter her.
- Can you get aids from blow jobs without condoms ?
There is a risk of getting AIDS (or other sexually
transmitted infections such as
herpes, Hepatitis B, syphilis…)if you suck dicks without a condom. A condom
reduces
the risk but it is still there! A small tear in the mouth and a drop of semen is
a
risk if either of you has a virus. You must use a condom if you don't know your
partner. You can now get special condoms for oral sex
- I'm fed up of using condoms. My girlfriend is on the pill now. Could she
still get
AIDS or something?
YES!
Don't confuse condoms and the pill! They are both contraceptives to stop
pregnancy,
but the pill doesn't protect you from sexually transmitted infections (AIDS
among
others) ! So you must keep on using condoms unless you have both had recent
tests
and are faithful.
- I recently had sex with my girlfriend and the condom split. Is this serious,
could
we catch something ?
Don't panic. If a condom splits, go to a doctor within
48 hours and ask for tests.
In the first few hours, something can still be done if they find any virus .
- My partner and I would like to have a test but we're not sure who to see or
where to
go.
You can go to your GP, family planning clinic or a GUM
clinic at your local
hospital. It's free on the NHS. (UK information)
EJACULATIONS pictures
- Sometimes I just make a few drops, sometimes my tummy is covered in cum.
Quantity depends on age a little(young
adolescents don't produce much, but it
increases quickly, then it will drop as you get older); but it really depends on
how turned on you are : if it's passionate sex, or a long wank, you might
produce
a lot more. If you haven't come for a few days get the Kleenex ready!
- I've seen some mad cum shots in porn flicks : but can you
have kids with smaller
amounts?
In general films show the exceptions, showing
the same cum shot from different
angles (which makes it look longer). It's not the volume that matters but
the
concentration of sperm: only a sperm test can tell you. Best advice have a
balanced lifestyle (and loose underwear) so your balls can do their job properly
- My mate told me he managed to spray behind his head!
If you're really turned on, that can happen (rarely)
with young men... But we're
not having a shooting contest, are we ? ! When you're in a woman who is going to
be measuring how far you've shot? If you want figures, some
say the maximum
shot is about 60 cm, with about a teaspoon full of fluid....